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Gentleness

by Linda White Dove

Some of nature’s most powerful “forces” are the most gentle. Consider that the slow movement of a small stream over thousands of years can actually carve a river in the largest of mountains. The waves at the beach create a lull that can calm the most rigid of bodies. A bird glides on the currants of navigation and relaxation. A baby is one of nature’s most obvious and powerful miracles.

Nature creates a backdrop for humanity’s strain and struggle mentality. Nature is ever present as a reminder, yet it is often ignored as people seek to find the easy life. True teachers often come in the quietest, most subtle of voices. The role of the student is to allow themselves the space to hear and be receptive to the messages.

As people who want to make a contribution, we forget that listening is one of the most profound contributions we can make. We want to be heard, we want to do, we want to make our mark. Lifetime after lifetime we return to push ahead, often accomplishing less than the smallest of water trickles, carving itself into the rock face of a mountain. Or at the very least, struggling a lot more to accomplish the same thing.

If you could tune into the consciousness of the small trickle of water on the rock face of the mountain, you would not be able to teach it about patience. This is not a part of its experience. In fact, it does not contemplate its experience much at all, it just is. It does not think about happiness, either. Happiness is based on wanting something that you are not, or that you think you are not. When someone or something just is, they are already full, or perhaps they are already empty. For as soon as you identify yourself as an “is” then there is the part of you that is not yet.

Gentleness is the part of you that is eternal. People go out “into nature” to connect with the part of them that is eternal. They do this, forgetting that they are eternal, they are natural. They are nothing. Nature is a state of nothingness.

We are taught to fear nothingness. If it seems like nothing is happening in our lives, then we feel the need to create something. Sometimes this is as basic as turning on the TV when we are bored. Or like talking when there is a prolonged period of silence between people. Other times we find we are addicted to drama, creating things to talk about when times are slow. We talk about things being “dead” at work. Death (which we also fear) is equated with nothing and so we fill every last space we possibly can, with the best of intentions.

So sadly and yet so simply, it is in the state of nothingness that we find ourselves. Everything which is born on this planet, whether it is a human being, or an idea, comes from the Great Void. Everything comes from nothing. This is an elusive concept if you try to chase it down, try to figure it out, search for the meaning of it somewhere. Nothing cannot be understood from a place of understanding. It is not something that is attainable, either. To say it is our essence is not exactly the case either, it is more the Source, or birth of Essence. This Source does not have an exact location, either, it is everywhere.

You may wonder why we are sharing this with you. Why we are telling you about something you cannot obtain and what it has to do with gentleness. This is not meant to be an instruction guide to obtaining nothingness, or total unity with Source. It is meant to be a reminder, a gentle reminder, on how to connect with a very different type of power, the “force” that underlies all of creation.

Nobody can deny the “power” of nature. You cannot make a thunderstorm go away. You cannot stop the Earth from rotating on her axis. You cannot duplicate the love a mother and father have for their child just by pretending to have a child. These may not all seem gentle in the way you may think of gentleness. Gentleness is not weakness. It is intelligence. We do not expect you to read this and put it into action. We are not telling you to try and make the thunderstorms stop. Nor are we telling you that life with its deadlines and requisite requirements is not a valid way of being.

However, underneath and woven through all life and lifestyles, is the gentleness that comes from nothingness. Gentleness is everywhere. We are suggesting that you become more aware of this current. It is in the awareness of gentleness that you become more attuned to it. You may find within its teachings, a new way of being, one that requires a lot less effort to accomplish more and be more satisfied. You may find improved relationships, especially with yourself. You may find better health, more relaxation and inner peace. Or you may “find” nothing!

Linda White Dove
(413) 527-4526
E-mail:  allislove@mindspring.com
Website:  http://www.neholistic.com/whitedove

©  Linda White Dove 7/2000

 

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